The Virginian-Pilot
                             THE VIRGINIAN-PILOT 
              Copyright (c) 1995, Landmark Communications, Inc.

DATE: Friday, September 15, 1995             TAG: 9509150005
SECTION: FRONT                    PAGE: A22  EDITION: FINAL 
TYPE: Letter 
                                             LENGTH: Short :   29 lines

GUIDE, DON'T BEAT

Regarding ``Bible and punishment'' (letter, Aug. 21): ``Spare the rod and spoil the child'' has sometimes been interpreted to mean that a parent should hit the child.

But consider this explanation: A rod, to the writer of the Bible's words, probably meant a shepherd's rod. And a good shepherd uses his rod not to beat his sheep, but to gently guide them.

Another thought brought up in the letter is the importance of discipline. Yes, a parent should discipline a child. But we should remember that to discipline does not mean to hit. To discipline means to teach. There are many methods of teaching, and hitting is the worst of them.

EMILY HUNTER SLINGLUFF

Virginia Beach, Sept. 1, 1995 MEMO: Editor's note: Ms. Slingluff is the author of ``A Primer for Positive

Parenting.''

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